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Talking about Race with Kids

By Sarah, The Library Center

Want to open a conversation about race and social justice with your family? Start with a book. The Library has resources for all ages to help start and keep conversations happening. Check out the booklists on the kids page to find books for youth from birth through school age.

A good way to start is by sharing books that feature diverse families and people. It's as important for kids to see people who look like them in books as it is to see people who are unlike them. Here are some of our favorites.

All Are Welcome by Alexandra Penfold
Illustrations and simple, rhyming text introduce a school where diversity is celebrated and songs, stories, and talents are shared.

Happy in our skin by Fran Manushkin
Bouquets of babies sweet to hold: cocoa-brown, cinnamon, and honey gold. Ginger-coloured babies, peaches and cream, too--splendid skin for me, splendid skin for you! A delightfully rhythmical read-aloud text is paired with bright, bustling art from the award-winning Lauren Tobia, illustrator of Anna Hibiscus, in this joyful exploration of the new skin of babyhood. A wonderful gift book for new mums and toddlers; all children can see themselves, and open their eyes to the world around them, in this sweet, scrumptious celebration of skin in all its many, many, wonderful forms.

We're Different, We're the Same by Bobbi Jane Kates
Illustrations and simple rhyming text show that while the body parts of various human and Muppet characters may look different, they have similar uses.

What Makes Us Unique?: Our First Talk About Diversity by Jillian Roberts
What Makes Us Unique? provides an accessible introduction to the concept of diversity, teaching children how to respect and celebrate people's differences and that ultimately, we are all much more alike than we are different.

What's the Difference? by Doyin Richards
Photographs and simple text celebrate friendship, diversity, and acceptance. Being different is amazing.

Talking about current events and the news can be scary and these books approach that topic in a gentle and sensitive way.

A is For Activist by Innosanto Nagara
The bestselling ABC book for families who want their kids to grow up in a space that is unapologetic about activism, environmental justice, civil rights, LGBTQ rights, and everything else that we believe in and fight for.

An ABC of Equality by Chana Ginelle Ewing
An ABC of equality introduces complicated concepts to the youngest of children, from celebrating our differences, understanding everyone's beliefs, and treating everyone with kindness.

If You're Going to a March by Martha Freeman
Answers many questions about participating in a march, including what to wear, how to get there, and why marching is important.

On the Playground: Our First Talk About Prejudice by Jillian Roberts
Gives a comprehensive introduction to the topic of prejudice.

Something Happened in our Town: a Child's Story about Racial Injustice by ABPP Marianne Celano
After discussing the police shooting of a local Black man with their families, Emma and Josh know how to treat a new student who looks and speaks differently than his classmates. Includes an extensive Note to Parents and Caregivers that provides general guidance about addressing racism with children, child-friendly vocabulary definitions, conversation guides, and a link to additional online resources for parents and teachers.

Standing Up to Hate Speech by Alison Morretta
One of the most awkward situations someone can face is when a friend or an acquaintance makes an offensive statement or tells a repulsive joke about a group of people. This book informs young student how to overcome their discomfort to let others know in a non-confrontational way that such speech should be stopped. ________ Defining hate speech -- Fighting hate speech -- Joining the fight -- Glossary -- Find out more -- Index -- About the author. ________ Includes index.

The Breaking News by Sarah Lynne Reul
When devastating news rattles a young girl's community, her normally attentive parents and neighbors are suddenly exhausted and distracted. At school, her teacher tells the class to look for the helpers-the good people working to make things better in big and small ways. She wants more than anything to help in a BIG way, but maybe she can start with one small act of kindness instead ... and then another, and another.

For older readers who want to get more in depth, these middle grade fiction titles are great for opening conversations about the world around us and are excellent for sharing together with adults.

A Good Kind of Trouble by Lisa Moore Ramée
After attending a powerful protest, Shayla starts wearing an armband to school to support the Black Lives Matter movement, but when the school gives her an ultimatum, she is forced to choose between her education and her identity.

Front Desk by Kelly Yang
Recent immigrants from China and desperate for work and money, ten-year-old Mia Tang's parents take a job managing a rundown motel in Southern California, even though the owner, Mr. Yao is a nasty skinflint who exploits them; while her mother (who was an engineer in China) does the cleaning, Mia works the front desk and tries to cope with demanding customers and other recent immigrants--not to mention being only one of two Chinese in her fifth grade class, the other being Mr. Yao's son, Jason. Includes Author's note with bibliographical references.

Harbor Me by Jacqueline Woodson
When six students are chosen to participate in a weekly talk with no adults allowed, they discover that when they're together, it's safe to share the hopes and fears they have to hide from the rest of the world.

One Crazy Summer by Rita Willimas-Garcia
In the summer of 1968, after travelling from Brooklyn to Oakland, California, to spend a month with the mother they barely know, eleven-year-old Delphine and her two younger sisters arrive to a cold welcome as they discover that their mother, a dedicated poet and printer, is resentful of the intrusion of their visit and wants them to attend a nearby Black Panther summer camp.

The Parker Inheritance by Varian Johnson
Twelve-year-old Candice Miller is spending the summer in Lambert, South Carolina, in the old house that belonged to her grandmother, who died after being dismissed as city manager for having the city tennis courts dug up looking for buried treasure--but when she finds the letter that sent her grandmother on the treasure hunt, she finds herself caught up in the mystery and, with the help of her new friend and fellow book-worm, Brandon, she sets out to find the inheritance, exonerate her grandmother, and expose an injustice once committed against an African American family in Lambert.

Finally, here are some additional resources to help you explore diversity with your children.

You’re Kids Aren’t Too Young To Talk About Race: A Resource Roundup

Racing Equality Tools: Children, Families, and Youth Development 

Talking to Kids About Race

Resources for Talking About Race, Racism, and Racialized Violence With Kids

How White Parents Can Use Media to Raise Anti-Racist Kids